Did you know that texting can build trust in a relationship? We often think of text messages as less intimate forms of communication. Surprisingly, if used correctly, it can plant seeds of attention and reports that can help build trust and show her that you’re thinking of her. Here are ways texting can build trust.

First of all, text messages show her that you care about her. When someone receives a text, it reminds the person that you’re sorry. This has a couple of effects. First, it shows her that you were thinking about her and that you wanted to communicate with her, which is a compliment. More importantly, studies show that the more we are exposed to someone, the more inclined we are to like them. Even better, if you pique his curiosity through text messages, he might even start chasing you around a bit. This changes his mindset because the more he invests in you, the more he trusts you. It’s helpful to think of text as the icing on the cake. They don’t build the relationship, but tip the scales in your favor. By making her aware of you, you become a household name in her mind, which always helps. And believe me these little things make a big difference. A side note is that you want to make sure she reciprocates. If her texts are much shorter than yours or if she rarely answers, you’ll come off as needy instead of charming.

Second, texts can create a mutual reality when they are creative. For example, funny texts can offer memories that both of you share together. The interesting thing about the mind is that if you feel a certain emotion for someone, it doesn’t matter if it’s made up or not. For example, joking that the two of you are going to rob banks together for pranks can create an unconscious bond as she is thinking of you acting together. This “we” mentality is important for trust, as a successful relationship is built on communication and team spirit.

Finally, texting can help open up his playful side to you. To do this, you need to be playful yourself. For example, you can text him something silly, like asking him to send you a helicopter so you can skip traffic. Making her laugh is the secret to creating comfort. The more comfortable she feels with you, the more she will trust you. Try these texting tips to get the girl of your dreams! What are you waiting for? Pick up the phone and text her!