“Stolen water is refreshing; food eaten in secret tastes better.” Proverbs 9:17. This statement from the Bible is so profound and rings so true to the way of life throughout the world, that no matter what “religion” or beliefs you express, we can all agree with this statement rather than the “issues” issue. .

Maybe you have never taken anything (stolen) something that belonged to someone else. Perhaps you have never dreamed of being with someone other than yourself (spouse). However, there may have been a time or perhaps this is the moment when you found yourself right in the middle of an affair that you once orchestrated, encouraged, or attempted and got stuck (no pun intended).

Let’s take a look at this list of: WHY, WHY NOT, HOW NOT TO DO IT, and HOW TO DO it in the affairs of an adventure.

Why do we have adventures? Why shouldn’t we have an affair(s)? How not to have an affair and How to stop having an affair(s).

First, why do we have affairs?

Simple answer: we want. Adventures don’t just happen, they’re usually well thought out, whether we admit it or not.

Second, why shouldn’t we have an affair?

Other simple answer(s): It’s wrong, wrong, wrong #1. #2 It damages the very core of the person’s (and yours) heart and soul. No matter how you try to convince yourself that you are not subject to pain and matters of the heart; you are only fooling yourself. At best, affairs are nothing more than dirty little “common” acts of usury and greed. An affair takes, takes, takes, takes, and takes… until the giver is exhausted, dissatisfied, and dazed.

Third, How Not to Have an Affair: Remember how you know people you’re still with (but now cheating on them)… I don’t want to believe you started telling yourself or your partner that “I’m going to cheat on you the first chance I get.” I’ve got”; unless, of course, this is your character. And if this is the case, he too may drop to his hands and knees and start barking. (no offense)

But if that’s not how you really are and you find yourself “disinterested” in the person (wife, husband) you are with and have been with for at least the last ten, twenty or more years… and you are becomes a bit restless and starts looking at his wife/husband with disdain, may I humbly suggest that there is nothing bad with the person you married (especially) if you’ve held on that long… IT’S YOU!

You are not satisfied with yourself, and perhaps you have tried to hold on to an image that has faded over time, and you just realized that time has passed, so now you want to start over with “fresh meat” (hahaha )” . Keep in mind that even the grass on the other side will also wither; and who you’re with is tried and tested and true. What you see is what you havewhat you have I had, and if you play your cards right, you’ll end up with a royal flush or four aces every time. You are vested.

Simple Answer to How Not to Have an Affair: Thinking Outside (Your Pants)…Starting over is expensive…at ALL LEVELS, and usually not worth the time, pain, embarrassment, or money Although everyone can get over it at some stage in life. But why leave such carnage behind when you can simply be honest with yourself and yourself from the very beginning of the relationship…before the commitment? Well, uh, um.

Fourth, How to Stop Having an Affair: The reverse of how you started it. Stop dragging and scurrying. Call, text, sextee, FB, Tweet, etc., etc., less and less, and start being HONEST (here’s a novel idea…um…stay home sometimes.

Oh what? Honest, who can you ask? YOURSELF to start. Admit that you have unresolved internal issues. Problems that take place on the stage (life) of everyone else and that, at best, end in a tragedy or a comedy. You have been acting for so long that you begin to believe your own hype and agree that what is wrong is right. This is uncontrolled behavior that blinds you and deceives you, highlights the daffodil you are or have become, you get the picture.

Get over yourself (man/woman), and put yourself “with yourself”. There is no satisfaction for the flesh…it’s like the Seymores plant…the more you give it; the more he wants… FEEEEED MEEEEEE!!!

A word of comfort and challenge for the “Single Town”:

if you are not married and you’re having an affair or have been having an affair with someone other than the person you’re “dating”…it’s not an affair you’re having…it’s just another affair.

However painful and terrible a thought and an act, this can be; the truth of the matter is that you or the person you are ‘dating’ have Without obligation be faithful both are free moral agentsand have the freedom to date whoever you want and want at any time.

I’m sure you can say we’re going to “exclusively just see each other”. And no doubt you mean it the moment you make that statement. But the reality is, there’s always that sinking, empty feeling that one day someone might show up and become the next. So, in conclusion, I heard someone say, “Why buy the cow when you can get milk for free?”

Disclaimer: I am not calling anyone a dog, cow, or any other animal. Just be careful how you present yourself.

This is information, perception and observation is not based on old-fashioned puritanical self-righteous ideas; but real life, with real people, who have and are really being scarred for life because of humanity’s selfish, selfish, pompous, greedy thoughts and ways.

LOVE “IS NOT” LUST, and LOVE “NOT” HURT. IT FEELS GOOD… BECAUSE IT IS GOOD… BECAUSE IT IS THE LOVE OF GOD.

GOOD = GOD.

Matters “seem fine” on set; but in the end it’s exactly what a messy mess “looks like”.

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