So you cheat on your husband. I bet that’s probably the worst feeling in the world. Maybe you did it because you were alone? Or maybe it’s just the lack of attention he gives you. Or maybe he doesn’t notice you at all. While these are good excuses for cheating, it doesn’t make it right.

Marriage is a union between man and woman that is carried out in a sacred way and has been from the beginning. In the old days it was not a common practice to get divorced and it sure was not a practice to cheat. Today our feelings towards relationships have changed a lot. If you’ve watched any talk show on TV, you can see that society has done “right” to accept separation. It is no wonder why the divorce rate is so high in the world.

If you’ve cheated and really want to make things right in your marriage, there are a few key things to know.

#1. Admit you were wrong.

You must first admit that you were wrong and acknowledge the fact that you cheated. You won’t be able to make a first move unless you admit that you were deceived.

#two. Apologize.

This is very important. Although her apology means nothing at this point, it is an absolute requirement that she apologize to her husband for what she has done. This will at least let him know that you are trying to make an effort. Whatever you do, don’t let it bother you if he doesn’t respond positively.

#3. Let time pass and be the best wife you can be.

Right now the best thing you can do is wait and be patient. He will forgive you eventually, but in his own time, not yours. Be good to him and let him be. Pressuring him to forgive you will only make the situation worse.

Follow these 3 basic steps to start the coping process. If you need additional help, you may need professional counseling or a marriage counselor.