You see a beautiful girl and you can ask how you can tell if she is a virgin. The truth is that there is no way to know if it is a virgin. However, over the years, there have been many misconceptions and silly myths that have spread and claim that you can tell if a girl is a virgin or not. You can supposedly tell if she is a virgin because she will lack that certain non-virgin look. What surprises many is that most of the “signs” that she is a virgin are not very reliable:

A common myth that people attribute to virginity is that your breasts change after sex. For example, some claim that their breasts are pointing further out or that one of the breasts may be fatter because they have not had sex yet. One possible source of this belief is the change that occurs when a woman is pregnant or reaching puberty, but outside of these contexts, such transformations are completely fictional. Many of these myths date back to times when people were more concerned with a woman’s virginity remaining intact and used physical differences as an excuse to label certain women as whores. Seriously guys, how are you going to make your breasts more symmetrical by having sex? The human body is not perfectly symmetrical. In fact, when people are shown faces that are a mirror image of only one side of the face, they freak out. We are not attracted to perfect symmetry, so enjoy the little quirks in a person’s appearance, they are what makes them unique.

Similarly, people have falsely pointed to other physical changes as evidence. Somehow, people have connected the flat back with sex. This one is just ridiculous, as as women get older, many earn a little more loot. When a girl loses her virginity, she does not transform into a new body, she has only had sex. Similarly, clear, shiny urine has been noted as proof of virginity. Gentlemen, an important point to stop by here. Neither virgin nor non-virgin are champagne bottles. If a woman really has gasy urine, she should go to the doctor as soon as possible.

My favorite myths have to do with appearance. You might hear a friend say that women have that sexy “certain kind of look” when they haven’t been deflowered. Some even go so far as to suggest details such as the girl losing her eyebrow hair. There is a grain of truth in this myth. A woman who has had sex can radiate a more sexual vibe, something that is not really possible for people who have never experienced sexuality. But it is quite possible to have experienced a lot of sexual passion without having sex. Her hymen might be intact, but she could still radiate that kitty sexual vibe.

Similarly, changes in places like the eyebrows probably have nothing to do with sexual activity and everything to do with grooming. When a girl is sexually active or is thinking about becoming sexually active, she will begin to pay more attention to her appearance. One of the first things they do is go get their eyebrows plucked. There is nothing to stop a girl with a single eyebrow from having a lot of sex. Also, naturally thin eyebrows are genetic and have nothing to do with having sex for the first time.

Finally, the latest misconceptions revolve around a girl’s hymen. One of the most unfounded myths is that the way a girl walks changes when her hymen breaks. This rumor started because a lot of horseback riding girls tear their hymen while riding, so even though they’re still virgins, it doesn’t seem like they are. The way you walk with your legs wider apart is a side effect of riding a horse, nothing more. One of the truest misconceptions is that a virgin will bleed when she first has sex. While this is often the case, it is not always true. When a girl has sex for the first time, her hymen, the thin membrane that covers the opening of a woman’s vagina, will tear from the penetration of an erect penis, assuming it hasn’t been torn by some other non-sexual activity. When the hymen breaks, it bleeds. But many activities can break the hymen, cycling, ballet, horseback riding, and many more. It is even possible for a hymen to rupture as a result of a car accident.

Only a doctor can truly confirm virginity by stating the presence of an intact hymen. A doctor can tell if this hymen was torn by a penetrating penis or by excessive exercise.

So what’s the BEST way to tell if she’s a virgin? ASK AND WAIT FOR AN HONEST ANSWER!

But to tell the truth, you should be wondering if it really matters if she’s a virgin or not. The biggest myth about virginity is that being a virgin or non-virgin says something about who a person is, it doesn’t. Having sex doesn’t change you in any way, but it opens your eyes to a whole new world of experiences.